Hey all you people,
So pretty much every single week that I've been in Valenciennes has been kind of weird/crazy. I've either had to go to Paris or do legality or do other stuff that takes time away from teaching lessons or finding people. But this week we didn't have to do anything like that and that was really nice because that means we had more time to do some serious missionary work-ness.
Monday, May 12 -
We had an FHE where pretty much the whole ward came, and Soeur Cameron and I were in charge. We watched "Because of Him" (pretty much you can't ever go wrong with that video) and aksed the members to share how Christ has blessed their lives and how they can show they're grateful for the blessings he's given them. As we showed the video and discussed, I saw that many of the members had tears in their eyes. They bore powerful testimonies of the Savior and the Spirit was so strong.
Tuesday, May 13 -
Errr... not much happened on Tuesday. We taught some lessons, but nothing too special. Oh, and we went to District Meeting.
| Elder Walton and the rest of the district. |
We were going to spend the whole day in Iwuy with some members in our ward, but they cancelled because the father was in the hospital because of a relapse of malaria, which he'd contracted while on his mission in Africa. He got a blessing and he's okay now.
So, instead of going to Iwuy, we went to the Elders' part of Valenciennes to find new amis for them because the Elders are having a hard time right now. We didn't find anyone for them to teach, but a Muslim man did come up to us while we were on the tram and asked us about our religion. He started explaining his religion to us as well, and was willing to listen to what we had to say. When some people on the tram started pointing at us and laughing at us he said not to pay any attention to them because their minds were too closed and they couldn't understand the good we're doing. He said it's important to respect and love others no matter what they believe. I think it was a little miracle that the Lord sent this man to talk to us, because it was encouraging and we both felt better afterwards.
We were going to go visit some less-actives after that, but instead we decided to visit a family in our ward, the Pierach family. First we visited their neighbor, who was open to talking to us about the church and was very kind. Then we went to say hello to the Pierach's. Soeur Pierach took us home. We sat in her car with her outside of our apartment for about an hour and a half while she told us about how she'd been hurt and offended by some things that had happened in our ward and how she and her husband had considered leaving the church. I know we were inspired to visit the Pierach's because we knew they'd been having troubles, but we didn't know it was that bad. Soeur Cameron and I talked about it afterward and decided that we need to strengthen the ward, that that is why the Lord called us to serve in Valenciennes. Because every single recent convert here in Valenciennes in the past twenty years has left the church because of something the ward did. The Pierach family was the last recent convert family left, and they're still considering leaving the church or going to another ward. We need to help this ward have love and charity for those around them, we need to help them be more involved in strengthening the new members and helping them through their first years in the church.
Thursday, May 15 -
Thursday was a day of miracles. I definitely saw the Lord's hand in the little details of our day.
We decided to fast to know how to help the ward, and that gave us a lot of miracles, strength and ideas. We focused our studies in the morning on the needs of the ward and both Soeur Cameron and I found some really good ideas and inspiration. In fact, the answers we'd gotten were pretty much the same, and that shows that the Lord's hand was in it, guiding us to the things we needed to know.
Then we went and saw Christelle again, but with a member this time. As we talked to her, she started crying and said she was still having such a hard time with her husband's death. I could tell she had no hope, that she was in despair. We told her she could have comfort and peace, she could have the hope that she needed through the Savior and his Atonement. We told her we were there to help her and that we know our message will help. She went inside to get her phone so she could give us her number, but her kids and all the neighbor kids that like to hang out at her house were causing problems. We heard a lot of yelling and screaming from inside the house, and we decided to pray for her to help her and her family, to help her find peace and happiness, to feel the Lord's love. As we did, I felt the Lord's love for her and I felt comforted, that he was with her and would take care of her as much as he could. I know that we'll be able to help Christelle's life change for the better, we just need to meet with her somewhere less chaotic, like at the church or a park.
After that, we decided to pass by Catherine, but she wasn't home. I felt like we should go visit Chantal, a woman we'd found a few weeks earlier and hadn't had the chance to see again. Miraculously, she was there and she said she had a few minutes to talk to us. We shared some scriptures from the Bible about the Savior and about how he would help her carry her burdens and find peace, because she was worried about the surgery she would be having. The Spirit was definitely there and I know she felt it. She was different, more peaceful and hopeful, when we left. We gave her a Book of Mormon and she was happy and said she'd read it while she was recovering from her surgery.
A member, Soeur Duez, came to teach one of our amis, Marie-Christine, with us after that. But Marie-Christine said she was busy, so we decided to go visit an inactive member named Soeur Manet instead. It ended up being perfect because Soeur Duez and Soeur Manet connected and related to each other really well and ended up talking to each other like they were old friends. We shared some scriptures and Soeur Duez gave good insights and testimony that helped give Soeur Manet comfort about her difficult family situation. I know it was in Heavenly Father's plan for us to visit Soeur Manet instead of Marie-Christine, because it ended up working perfectly.
Then we taught Denise, an ami we'd just found last week. We were afraid we'd be late, because the first two of the trams that went to her city were too full, so we had to wait thirty/forty minutes to get the next tram. But we prayed and we ended up getting to Denise's house early. Denise is a mother of four children, a practicing Catholic who's having a hard time because her husband can't find a job in France, so he went back to Africa to work there. She can't find a job because they won't accept the degree she got at a university in Africa, and she really doesn't like the neighborhood she's living in becuase it's really shady and run-down. We shared with her about the Lord's love for her and how he'll help her through this hard situation she's in. I truly did feel Heavenly Father's love for her, and it was so incredible.
The last thing we did that day was visit Marie-France and Didier. As usual, Marie-France wasn't feeling very well. But we studied a chapter of the Book of Mormon together, and as time passed Marie-France began to smile and laugh and joke. I know that the gospel can truly help us with any of our problems and I've seen that each time we visit Marie-France and Didier and how the Spirit changes them into happier, more hopeful people.
Friday, May 16 -
Not much happened on Friday... we did weekly planning and met with the Ward Mission Leader and went to Ward Council. We talked about the problems the ward has been having and how we can help them.
Saturday, May 17 -
We met with an ami that I hadn't seen yet named Jacqueline. She's probably 80/90-ish years old and she'd been meeting with the missionaries for 9 years. She was really distressed when we came to visit her. She told us of all the problems she's been having with her health and her family, and apparently she'd also gotten scammed and had barely any money left. We prayed with her, shared scriptures with her and followed the Spirit in helping her. I could tell she felt a lot more peaceful by the time we were done. It was fun meeting with her because she had so many stories to tell about her childhood and about the history of Valenciennes, plus she's so cute and nice.
Sunday, May 18 -
On Sunday, the Pierach family came to church, which was a miracle in itself because they weren't planning on coming. But another miracle was that the missionary that baptized them had come back to France to visit, and he was there that Sunday to talk to them and help them. And the talks during sacrament meeting were really inspired, perfect for the family's situation and exactly what they and the ward needed.
We taught Amanda the Law of Chastity, which was really awkward to teach a nine year old who doesn't know anything about such things. Her mom wasn't really any help, either. She was embarassed as well... but eventually we taught it so that Amanda understood, then she had her baptismal interview. She's going to be baptized this Saturday, and I'm so excited!
After church we went and visited Denise again and taught her about the Restoration. She seemed to understand remarkably well. We told her she could find out if it was true for herself and we testified of how the gospel would help her have more direction and strength in her life and find the answers she's searching for. She was willing to pray and ask and listen to what we have to say, even though she's a strongly practicing Catholic. I think she feels the truth of what we taught her and knows it can help her with the situation she's in.
I'm going to share a scripture that we shared a lot this week, because it helps me so much and it helped the people we taught:
Matthew 11:28-30
"Come unto me, all ye that labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn of me, for I am meek and lowly of heart; and ye shall find rest unto your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light."
I know that the Savior knows all of us so perfectly and that he knows exactly the things that will help us with any questions or worries we might have. I've learned by experience that all we have to do is just come to him and he will help you have peace, he will make your burdens light, he will make up the difference in those things you can't do by yourself.
Soeur Williams
So, I found a baguette vending machine and thought that was hilarious/awesome/something that needed to be shared with the world, so there ya go.
And we found a really pretty park while trying to find people for the Elders.
